0375 - Kallah and Mother-in-law with Similar Names

00:00 We know that the Rebbe quotes in many of his letters what the Tzemach Tzedek writes in one of his tshuvos, Benigei, where it says in Tzavos, Rebuta Chosid, not to marry a woman that has the same name as his mother. But the Tzemach Tzedek writes that if they have two names, if one of them has two names, so then it's okay, no problem. And the loshen there is that ain shum chash ba'alum klal, there's no chash in the world at all. And the Rebbe would quote it to different people. I just want to mention, I remember someone told me once that they offered a shidduch to his son, which had the same name as his wife, which means the mother of this bocher, but not exactly the same name. She had two names, and the mother of this bocher had one of the two names. So this man asked the Rebbe about it in Yechidus, and the Rebbe told him, this Tzemach Tzedek, and it doesn't matter, it's no problem, this is not a problem. But nevertheless, this man says he felt uncomfortable doing it. So when the bocher himself went into Yechidus, he mentioned to the Rebbe that his father really feels uncomfortable doing it. So the Rebbe used the loshen, that tata vil gein an kegn Tzemach Tzedek? Your father wants to go against the Tzemach Tzedek? In other words, by the Rebbe, this seemed to be as if against the Tzemach Tzedek, but the Tzemach Tzedek makes it very clear that it's

01:20 okay. There's no reason whatsoever not to follow. And he used the loshen, gein an kegn Tzemach Tzedek, that he's going against the Tzemach Tzedek.