0151 - Inyanim Regarding Yechidus for Birthday

00:01 The say that till the middle of the Lamas was that everyone is able to go into Yechidus before your Yemeledes, before your birthday, in Galay, Bochrim, etc. And the say that by the Bochrim was that when they went to Yechidus, so they would write a settle and write a Chesm Hanefesh of where they feel they're holding at, and then ask for a Bochra for their Yemeledes. And if a Bochra then you Shilis, he would also ask Shilis. And the say that was that the Rebbe would take the settle, read the settle, and then he would start by saying the Heros for Yemeledes. First he would say, you should have an Aliyah the Shabbos before Yemeledes. If the Yechidus was after Shabbos, before the Yemeledes but after Shabbos, the Rebbe would ask, did you have an Aliyah on Shabbos? And if the person would say no, the Rebbe would say you should have an Aliyah next Shabbos. By some people the Rebbe would say you should have an Aliyah Arum de Yemeledes. That's what he told once my brother Nocham. And then he would say that on the day of Yemeledes you should give Tzdoke before Shachris and before Minche. And he would, if the Yemeledes was Shabbos, he would say that because it's Shabbos you should do this on Friday. And then the Rebbe would also say you should have an extra Shir in Nigla and in Chsides on the day of Yemeledes. And then the Rebbe would give generally the standard Broche. You should

01:11 have Atzloche in Limud HaTeira, Limud HaNigla, Limud HaChsides. And you keep my Mitzvas Behidur. And sometimes to some people he would add Tehbriyos HaMechina, which means in good health. To some people he would add also U'Naved Es Atfila in the Davening. And then if the Bochra had Shilis, the Rebbe would answer the Shilis. So I want to mention that once when I went into Yechidus and the Rebbe read my settle, the Rebbe started off by saying these words, Ongeshriben Loshon Hora Av Zichaleim. You wrote Loshon Hora on yourself. The Shvered Gizog, Az Avfila Av Zich Tam Nich Nisogan Ki Loshon Hora. The Friediker Rebbe said that you're not allowed to say Loshon Hora on yourself either. One time the Rebbe in Yechidus told me these words, Zol Zayin Erangetunken, Erangetrunken in Lennon Bizibren Kop. You should sink into learning. You should be till over your head. And he said, Az Zol Ztob Nyonim Fun Lennon Balpe. You should have in your mind by heart in Nyonim of learning. Because if you'll ever come out to be in a place where there are no Svarim, so if you have in Nyonim of Torah Balpe, you'll be able to learn anyway. Another thing, my Yemeledes often comes out on Friday. So whenever my Yemeledes came out on Friday, the Rebbe would say that make sure to be Maiver Desedre on the day of Yemeledes on Friday. I'm going to say Pshat, Lechuda, what he meant was you always have to be Maiver Desedre. That's a din. But

02:37 he meant to say that even if you usually are Maiver Desedre on Shabbos, let's say you leave it for Shabbos, but because of Yemeledes, you should make sure to be Maiver Desedre on the day of Yemeledes on Friday.